I found this in my favorite reading material which is KERYGMA , way back when I was still in college. I compiled this in one of my projects and I found this relieving so I want to share this with everyone.
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
that no matter how much I care
some people just don’t care back
that it takes years to build up trust
and only seconds to destroy it
that its not what you have in your life